What exactly are the “break-up” rules? Recently on another blog (http://bubble-talk-and-double-talk.blogspot.com/) the question was asked, “what did you do after your last break-up?” Answers ranged from crying for days, drinking for weeks, taking a long vacai, throwing away all relationship evidence to sleeping with 5 other people in the same week. What exactly should one do after a break-up? Obviously the whole crying, hating, and riding of relationship evidence is a very normal part – but are there any specific rules?
According to Charlotte in Sex and the City, it takes half the time of the length of the relationship to get over the relationship. According to L, my best friend…you cry, drink, workout and then get over it and find another man. Somehow she is able to jump back in the game within no time. Which brings me to another question, ‘is rebounding the only cure to a heart break’? Dunno...will let you know if it happens. I watched Sex and the City last night and Carrie rebounds with a hot baseball player after the Mr. Big break-up, and ends up crying tears in his mouth when he tries to kiss her...yuck! Yup, afraid I'd do the same thing.
Personal experience tells me that each break-up requires a different set of rules – but one thing stays the same…you must concentrate on you. If that means letting the flood gates go or letting the alcohol flow in; if that means rebounding with 5 others or staying celibate for 7 years ;-) – you have to follow your own rules…
What do you think?
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